In the Silence…In the Imagination

Are you ever uncomfortable in a room when everyone stops talking and then there is silence? Do you know people who chatter just to keep a room from being quiet? There is the awkward type of silence when people just don’t know what to say to each other, maybe because of the situation or the timing. There is also the angry silence when people are too mad for words just then.

Silence doesn’t have to be a negative, however. When I was studying at Candler, I attended a silent retreat with several of my classmates. I was overloaded with class work and my work schedule at the time, so silence sounded wonderful. We were brought together and given the schedule of meals and worship times. We received our room assignments for the night and told how the weekend was to be structured, and then we were sent off with our thoughts. At first the silence was refreshing. My brain had time to slow down (and so did my body). Mealtimes became strained, however. I had never eaten with a group in total silence before. We all found ourselves staring awkwardly at our plates, trying to avoid eye contact with anyone. By the second meal, however, we learned to enjoy one another’s company without needing words; smiles and gestures were enough. That weekend taught me to take time to collect my thoughts, listen during reflective time rather than try to talk through it, and think about my journey and the journeys of my peers. 

Here are a few things I took with me from that weekend that you can try for yourself and with your children:

1. Try a silent walk. Talk about the route before you leave and agree to stay together if your children are young. Then just walk. Listen to the noises around you. Notice things you may have overlooked before. Enjoy the company without needing the words. Once you return you can talk about what you saw or heard, but not until you get back to your starting point. See if people saw or heard something fun or unique. 

2. Agree to a half hour time once a week (or try an hour once a month) when no noise will be allowed in the house (unless there is an emergency, of course). If you have really young children, try this once they are asleep or while they are napping. No TV, radio, games, cell phones. Turn the ringer off of your home phone. No talking among yourselves. Read in the same room, flip through photo albums, play checkers, organize or sort art projects together, but no talking. 

3. Imagination time: read some fun poems or short stories to your kindergarten or elementary-aged children. Immediately after the reading, tell them you are going to have an “imagination time.” Offer a few suggestions of imagery or places in the book or poem that they can think about.  For an agreed upon time (ten or fifteen minutes, depending upon the age of the child), let everyone sit on a mat or lie on their backs or prop up on their elbows and just imagine. At the end of the time, the children can doodle or color or draw to show some the things they imagined. It’s a lot of fun for all involved!

Memphis Memories and a Patriot’s Daughter

I’m a lifelong learner. I love digging through history to find people who inspire me…hearing about new dinosaur fossils being discovered around the world…reading poems, short stories, and novels that make me think and draw me into the story so deeply that I feel part of the author’s created world.

While reading some notes about some of the people buried in a historic cemetery in my area, I recently learned something about my own hometown. I did not know that Dorothea Spotswood “Dolly” Henry Winston, the daughter of Patrick and Dorothea Henry once lived in Memphis. She’s buried in Elmwood Cemetery, so you can visit her grave if you visit. She was born in Williamsburg, Virginia, on August 2, 1778, and died in Memphis, Tennessee, at age 75 on June 17, 1854, at the home of her daughter.

Though her father’s words are easy to find, I couldn’t find much information about her life outside of Virginia, but I decided to write a short story (historical fiction) that introduces you to a little bit of her story.

Liberty and Lunch

By Chris Pepple ©2026

I gathered my belongings and stepped onto the deck of the steamboat. The awe-inspiring monster I traveled on offered me a quick way to reach my daughter and her husband in Memphis as it billowed smoke as if a dragon deciding whether it would protect or devour me along the journey. As I felt the churning of the waves of the Mighty Mississippi lapping at the edge of the boat, I prayed daily to myself: Dear Lord, keep the fires of this dragon contained in its own boilers. Help us avoid the fires that have taken the lives of other travelers.

Here I was, a woman in my 70s, on a new adventure that I had not seen coming. I had eaten my breakfast this morning on this vessel, trying not to think about what was ahead. Now, as I stared at the bluffs and the shoreline I would soon reach, I closed my eyes and thought back to the place I thought I would spend my final days—Red Hill, Virginia. I could picture our modest main house with my father proudly walking in to greet his family. I could smell the flowers blooming, hear my siblings laughing, and feel the wind blowing through the Osage orange tree.

I opened my eyes and saw the reality of the cobblestones and mud on the banks before me. I could hear the workers preparing for us to disembark. So many were excited to be landing in this growing city, but I saw nothing before me that felt comforting.

“Are you Dolly?” I heard a voice behind me calling out.

“Excuse me?” Dolly? Who knows me here to call me by that name? I surely have no friend here yet.

“Sorry, Ma’am. Are you Mrs. Dorothea Henry Winston?”

“Yes,” I replied, feeling tired and wanting to find someone familiar.

“Your daughter left me instructions to assist you off the boat and up the hill to her husband’s waiting wagon.”

I nodded. Elvira and James had been so kind to me over the past few years. After George died twenty-one years ago, I felt a bit lost. Grief over his death and the loss of four of our children through the years seemed to be a constant companion. Now—well, another change loomed before me. I accepted the help off the steamboat, not wanting to slip on the cobblestones or fall off the planks and into the mud that seemed to prey on this landing as if one more layer would swallow it forever. Memphis—my new home with my daughter and her family.

“Dolly, you made it!” my son-in-law called out, being one who could call me Dolly. “I hope your trip went well.”

“So good to see you, James,” I replied as he reached for my bags. “I’ll hold on to this one. It has a few special items in it.” I held that all the way to the home Elvira and James had been preparing for us to live in. They arrived months earlier to have things ready. I entered the house and could feel the care they had both put into it, hoping it would begin to feel like home to me. I had been away from Virginia for years—moving with them to Alabama after George died—but had always hoped to make my way back there for my final days. This house would have to do instead.

“Mother, let’s invite a few ladies over for lunch,” Elvira said two weeks into my stay at our new house. “We could have some chicken or rabbit with biscuits and some okra or greens.”

“It’s time I became a bit more social, I suppose. If we do that, I’d like to use something special at the table. Wait while I get it.” I went to my room and pulled out the only unpacked bag I had left. I pulled out two cloths with items wrapped in them. I smiled as I held them in my hands.

I went back out to our dining table and placed the cloths before Elvira. “These should be with you now,” I said as I unwrapped the largest cloth. Elvira gasped as she saw the items before her—eight sterling silver shell-patterned pistol handled knives, with eight matching three-pronged forks, and eight spoons.

“Mother, where did you get these?” she asked as she ran her fingers over the knife handles, admiring the craftsmanship.

“I’ve had these for years. Brought them from Red Hill when I left. I just never unpacked them. They were part of a wedding gift from my mother and father, handed down from our family,” I answered, once again closing my eyes and thinking of my parents and our homes in Virginia.

“What’s in the other cloth?”

“A tea cup,” I said as I pulled out a small china cup with its high handle and pink flowers with shamrock green leaves. “This is still mine for now. It reminds me of both the fragility and the beauty in life.” I paused before adding, “I think I’ll rinse this and make myself some tea now.”

Three days later, I admired the silverware as we sat around the table with women of various ages who were dear to Elvira and would become dear to me—mothers and daughters facing this growing port city together.

“I feel like I’m sitting with royalty,” Mrs. Thompson said, looking in my direction. “Tell us more about your family. I’ve read about your father a bit.”

“Well, I certainly don’t feel like royalty. Our lives are all of equal importance. Our joys and sorrows are equally felt and shared.”

“But you’re the daughter of Patrick Henry. That name’s known through all of the states—a founding father and a Virginia governor.”

“To me he was simply ‘Father.’ My mother and my father taught me how to read and how to listen, how to find my true self and how to respect the lives of others. I grew up in a house full of love and full of a desire to learn. I suppose his life is that of an American patriot who will be talked about when people pen the history of our nation, but to me he’ll be remembered for all of our long walks and our evening talks.”

“You’re lucky to have been educated and given so many opportunities in life,” a young woman who was sitting near Elvira said. “I’ve been farming for so long that I can’t even remember the last time I walked into a school room or held a book in my hand. Tell me more about what’s happening in other parts of the country and the political discussions I hear when I’m at the general store.”

“I can do more than tell you,” I said as I pardoned myself from the table and went into my room. I came back with three books and some letters tied together with a ribbon. “Here are some of my father’s letters I kept that talk about all that he worked for in this nation—the Bill of Rights he wanted to ensure we all had. I also have a few books that might interest you. The letters can be read here, but you can borrow the books. I’m having even more shipped in soon.”

“Liberties and freedom—people are still arguing about that today. Who has which liberties and who is truly free,” Mrs. Thompson added. “I try to focus on more basic matters such as what our church families face and what food needs to be put on the table. Illness runs through this town so often. Focusing on freedom isn’t going to cure or feed any of us.”

The conversation continued about the importance of speaking out for the rights of all people in our growing nation while also working to feed our families and provide medical care for our communities.

The lunch turned into a weekly occurrence with new faces joining us each week. When the weather was nice, we picnicked out back. With the cold or rain, we filled every chair in the house and filled our tables with food from each family.

During one lunch more than a year later, I looked at our group and said, “My father once wrote, ‘My earnest wish is that Christian charity, forbearance and love may unite all different persuasions as brethren.’ I truly wish that as well. You have made me feel at home here, though I longed to be back in my family home in Virginia. You gave me a purpose and a hope through these lunches—that my father’s wish for all people to be respected in this nation will still be something others are willing to stand for today.”

Maybe Dorothea Spotswood “Dolly” Henry Winston started the Memphis tradition of gathering for book club discussions and creating space for diverse beliefs to share a meal and remember what her father hoped for.

American Dream 2025

I keep seeing so much about politics and projects planned for our nation after the next election. People are grasping for power as if power will bring them joy or peace. Power over people only leads to despair and an emptiness that creates a craving for even more power because what was sought after doesn’t lead to fulfillment of any type. Power with people is what brings a stronger nation full of potential and hope. Power with people opens doors for all people to bring their creativity and ideas to the table. This leads to new innovations for problems we all face. This leads to beauty filling art galleries and music halls. This leads to medical research that brings hope to those who suffer. This leads to hope for all people.

Here’s a dream for America in 2025:

I have a hope that the sayings expressed in the beatitudes are breathed into life here on earth in this nation. May the poor in spirit, those who mourn, and those who are meek find blessings here in this nation. May we all be bearers of hope and comfort and respect. May those who hunger and thirst for righteousness and those who are merciful and pure in heart see the fruits of their labor growing and strengthening this nation. May the peacemakers know their efforts have truly brought peace to a divided land. May those who are persecuted find healing as they continue their good works.

I have a hope that the vision of our founders comes true. I hope that the dreams of the Anglicans, Baptists, Catholics, Congregationalists, German Pietists, Lutherans, Methodists, Jews, Mennonites, Moravians, and Quakers come true as they worked to build a nation free from religious rule. I hope the example of those who walked this land together knowing that they could each practice their religious beliefs and that they would not be forced to follow the beliefs of others inspire us to seek the wisdom they saw in embracing religious diversity and allowing others to seek God or their own spiritual path as they journey in life.

I have a hope that we will truly define our nation by the freedom we grant to all people. We will not hoard freedom in our own circles as if it is a limited commodity. We will see that freeing all people only strengthens our nation because we are showing the world what true strength and power look like. It looks like people standing together and working together without pulling others down. It looks like a place where all people are safe and can embrace their own identities and live and work and play without fear of being judged. A free nation is a healthy nation. A land of freedom means hope for all people. A land of freedom means we can work together to create a strong economy and healthcare system for all people to then thrive rather than just fight to survive. Let freedom ring throughout all the land.

I have a hope that we will be a wise nation. I hope that we will wisely examine our own prejudices so we can address what holds us back from following the ideals of freedom and justice and mercy. I hope that we will seek answers to the healthcare crisis in our nation and to the financial failures moving through our land. I hope that we will listen to the voices at the table and be willing to learn from each other. No one has all the answers. Together, though, we can find a path forward that will offer hope and stability and safety and beauty to our land…to all people in our land. We will be life-long learners who embrace exploring scientific studies and fund research and honestly explore history seeking accuracy and finding the stories that have been buried behind myths and wishful thinking.

I have a hope that we will be willing to address the mental health crisis in our nation. We have become a land where violence and abuse and despair flow from our communities because we lack resources to help people find answers and find healing.

I have a hope that we will care for the weakest in our land…that we will build communities that don’t take away from the strength of others but that do care for those people whose disabilities limit how they can care for themselves. I hope we care for those in need of medical resources. I hope we care for those who are lonely or scared or facing dementia and Alzheimer’s.

I have a hope that we will learn to care for this beautiful land we call home so the land can thrive as much as we can. I have a hope that we will keep our waters clean and our air pure. I have a hope that our parks will thrive and our natural lands be nurtured. I have a hope that our animals in this land will be treated with respect and cared for as part of our communities. We will fund our shelters and care for those pets who need to be re-homed. I have a hope that we are never the reason for the extinction of any species.

I have a hope that love wins and that everyone sees the beauty in that statement.

I have a hope that we work with other nations to bring global stability without the need for war. I have a hope that we help stop the need for killing so we can claim a power that is only fleeting anyway. I have a hope that we will help bring freedom and stability to other nations so that our world can be a place where hate and hurting stops, where peace and hope flow, and where all people of all identities and all genders and all races and all nationalities and all ages and all sizes and all levels of abilities are respected and granted access to resources needed to live out their days safely and surrounded by love.

What I know is possible…we can end gun violence. We can end domestic violence. We can work through and end prejudices. We can bring healing to those struggling physically and emotionally and mentally. We can stand together to build safer communities where racism is no longer real. We can offer equal rights to the entire LGBTQ+ community. We can create safe communities, including schools and hospitals and offices, for all transgender people. We can be stronger together.

Keep the hope alive in 2025.

Every Now and Then

Every Now and Then

Every now and then I look ahead

and smile with joy at the hopes I see

where everyone in the land is living free

and hate is so faint that its power

has all but been erased

and I look at the present

and know that we are setting the pace

for equality to be reality

and for love to win

and I look back and see the faces

of those who cleared the path

for our today

where progress is real

and hope is embraced

and courage is clearly carrying us,

and I pause and say thank you

to Harvey Milk for the courage

to run and to serve and

to speak louder than those

wanting his voice to fade

and I see the steps of

Marsha Johnson and Sylvia Rivera

leading to the STAR house

and the hope that lived there

and I hear the voice of Barbara Gittings

who didn’t back down from the fight

to declare the worthiness of herself

and all whom she walked with

on the journey to demand

visibility and respect

and I read the words of Audre Lorde

who confronted injustices and disrespect

and was targeted for her race, her gender,

her class, and her sexuality

yet she persisted and wrote

to leave us all a legacy of

knowing better and doing better

and naming the wrong and claiming the hope

and I think of the teachings of Sue Sanders

and the strength of Lady Phyll

and know that we can

embrace their courage

and amplify their voices

and pick up the torch passed to us

so that what they began

will continue and

the path of love and hope

will change our tomorrows

and bring about the dreams

those before us could envision…

for the courage

for the hope

for the love

we honor the past

we stand strong today

and we hope for tomorrow

—Chris Pepple © 2023

The Dance of the Young Spirits

The Dance of the Young Spirits

I sat outside and pondered

all the lives lost and the grief

of all who are left behind

and I listened to the songs of the birds

floating from tree limbs nearby—

Mother Earth inhales my worries and fears

and carries them on dandelion seeds

that will become the hope for new life 

tomorrow—but for today

She exhales the very winds that

touch my soul on these grief-filled days

when sorrow lays heavy in my heart,

but as daybreak nears, I glimpse

a teacher’s smile and outstretched hand

calling to students who are rising

from the wounds they should never

have had to experience, but now

I see their spirits rise among us

and dance before us with a beauty

that only the forever healed can show

and they encircle us and call us forth

to be the ones to join them in

this dance of the spirits

and to sing their names as we move

free from their dance and as we

face the sunrise without them

and decide how we will walk

into the future with the promise

we whispered to them that

no more would have to join their dance

before their time and no more

names would be written into the heart

of Mother Earth who grieves all who fall

into her arms by the hands of another…

Can you see them rising into the morning

and saying their own names as they

move into their forever without

finishing out their todays…

I hear their names and promise

I heard their pleas…

—Chris Pepple ©2022

Losing our country one child at a time..

Losing Our Nation One Child at a Time

America, our wounded land,

where children’s blood runs free

when shooters take their lives away

hiding behind guns so cowardly

America, our wounded land, 

where store clerks and teachers bravely

walk in each day as front-line warriors

while others declare guns make them free

America, our wounded land, 

God shed God’s tears for thee

and weeps for the good 

that is becoming harder to see

America, our wounded land, 

where voices are raised for change immediately

and wise ones know more tears will come

because America is losing her dignity

America, our wounded land, 

where whiners declare their rights selfishly

but the Black and the gay and the “other than me”

are targets for hate and can no longer be free

America, our wounded land, 

I truly grieve for thee…

—Chris Pepple ©2022

To the Women

To the Women

To all the women

in every region of the world,

in every country,

in every city and small town,

I hold you in my thoughts today

and celebrate your identity

and stand with you

in a sisterhood

that knows no bounds…

To the Ukrainian women

holding children and pets

in underground bunkers

and to your women

fighting on the frontlines of war,

I honor you…

To the Russian women

protesting and begging

for an unjust war to end

and who long to see

your sons back home,

I honor you…

To the Polish women

offering homes and hope

and who leave supplies

within reach

and who rock babies

that are not yours

so that another mother

can rest and breathe,

I honor you…

To women who are transgender

and who long to be recognized

and must fight for your rights

and who lose those close to you

because they choose to walk away,

but who build chosen families anyway,

I honor you…

To women who have survived

violence in your homes

and fled from abuse from those

who were supposed to love you,

and to the women still

trapped in unsafe homes,

I honor you…

To the Black women fighting racism

and raising sons and daughters

in this broken world

where people judge you

by the color of your skin,

I honor you…

To the women around the world

in poverty who struggle every day

to find food and shelter,

clean water and clean clothes

and who carry worry with you,

I honor you…

To refugees seeking hope

and who crave safety

and who walk through the unknown

to recreate what is known,

I honor you…

To the Mama Bears

creating safe spaces for your children,

who know that love is love

and who know that all people

regardless of gender or sexual identity

are worthy, 

who build communities for nonbinary, transgender, 

lesbian, gay, bisexual, questioning family members

and who extend your love to others, 

I honor you… 

To all women who take a stand

for what is right and just,

who offer love and hope,

who mentor and guide,

who reach out and who teach,

to the women who climb ladders

and help others climb with you,

who give back

and bring change

and offer hope

and hugs and love,

who hold hands

and touch hearts,

I honor you…

I celebrate our

diverse faiths

and races

and faces,

I celebrate

our dreams

and our successes,

I see our struggles,

I honor our journeys,

I honor you.

–Chris Pepple ©2022

A Poem: Anyway

Anyway

When I felt broken

and invisible and was dismayed, 

you reached out anyway. 

I have no words to ever repay, 

but I will say thank you

to the one who loved me anyway…

the one who saw me through,

and believed in me

and believed me

and saw me

and reached out your hand

and held on

and embodied grace and love

and spoke louder than the pain

and refused to fear my scars

and refused to chatter away

with the gossipers erasing truth

and constructing tales that fit

their life’s narrative rather than mine

Thank you…

to the one who loved me anyway.

When we feel broken,

love anyway.

–Chris Pepple ©2022

Rocks and Watermelon Seeds

f you are following my podcast on iTunes or SoundCloud (Look to See Me by Chris Pepple), you can find some of the transcripts of my episodes here.

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Rocks and Watermelon Seeds

Hi, Listeners! I hope you are all hanging in there this week. I know we are in the middle of some stressful and uncertain times. I do welcome you, though, this season of Look to See Me, a podcast that invites you to look closer at the lives of people around you and to take time to hear their stories. I’m Chris Pepple, and today I’m going to talk about what matters in life sometimes. We are all faced with so many choices this year—choices that not only affect our lives, but that also affect the lives of people around us. I am sentimental and during these times reflect upon the small things that make such a huge difference in life when we are faced with so much brokenness. I also love writing and like to use fiction to reflect upon reality. Today I’m going to share a short story that I wrote many years ago. I chose this story today because, with everything else going on in the news these days, some stories are being repeated over and over again. The particular stories I’m talking about here are stories of domestic abuse. Stories of women losing their lives when they had already warned people they were being abused. Stories of women leaving and struggling financially. 

I hope this story reminds us to be the bearers of hope and love for people. I hope this story reminds us to sit at the table with people and really listen. I hope this story reminds us how important love is. Yes, we need people to help fight legal battles and stand up to bring changes to our healthcare industry so medical debt isn’t so overwhelming. We need people to be allies and stand with us in court. We need people to help us find financial assistance to get our feet on the ground. But love also matters. When we are weary from the battles, we need to feel loved at the end of the day. All people need to feel loved. All people. Love heals. 

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ROCKS AND WATERMELON SEEDS

         I can’t believe Katelyn is moving. She has lived in this tiny apartment for six years with her two girls. I still remember the day they moved in. It sure was a hot one. I think we went through three pitchers of lemonade that day. Moving her in was easy in some ways. She didn’t have much at all. We had fun organizing it, though, and deciding which picture should hang in which room. 

         Six years ago, I really wasn’t sure she was going to make it. Trying to get away from her husband had been a rough process. It was hard for me to accept how difficult it could be to get away from an abusive person. The process of leaving, though, had wiped out her finances, her energy and her self-esteem. When she moved into the Mountain View apartments, she had very few resources to rely on. 

         “I’m glad I can rely on you,” she said as she smiled at the end of the moving day. My thoughts were betraying her, though, even as she spoke. I didn’t think she was going to make it. 

         I remember when the girls first saw their new apartment. They thought they were rich.

         “Look,” Emily squealed, “we live in a place with two swimming pools. And it’s a huge building. There’s even a playground here.”

         “We live close to bunnies,” Emma giggled as she watched two bunnies hop just out of sight of their patio. I had picked out this place for them because it seemed so tranquil, just the opposite of the chaos they were fleeing from. It felt good to see them smiling even though I knew all three were nervous about the move and all of the changes they faced in their lives.

         The first few months seemed to move so slowly. Katelyn struggled to get a job and find childcare for the girls. Affordable childcare seemed impossible to find. I kept the girls for her as much as I could, and she managed to hire somewhat affordable sitters for the other days. She finally got on as a teacher’s aide in a private school nearby. With the help of a few people from the community, she enrolled the girls there so they could all be together. They needed that so much. It was a gift to all three of them just to have those worries lifted off their shoulders. 

         I still wondered if Katelyn was going to make it, though. She had so much to learn about life. Her questions were endless at times. I swayed between wanting to teach her and wanting her to shut up at times. Her needs and her questions overwhelmed me every once in a while. I tried to hang in there with her, though. 

         “Teach me how to do their hair,” Katelyn asked one day.

         “Sure, we’ll do it one day,” I responded as I kept picking up books the girls had been reading. When I looked up, Katelyn was sitting patiently with a brush. I realized she meant right then. She was trying to get them ready for their open house at school. I knew Emily and Emma’s hair usually needed brushing, but it had never dawned on me that Katelyn had never been shown how to really take care of their hair. I remembered some old barrettes I had in my daughter’s room. I brought those down and we spent the next half hour making each girl look and feel adorable. We were all giggling when we were done. 

         The next few years seemed to pass quickly. Katelyn worked so hard to keep her family going and growing. She babysat for neighbors a couple of evenings a week so she could set aside a little money for the future. She usually managed to get through each month even though it was a struggle at times. I grew to love my time with her girls. I actually began to look forward to their days off from school so we could sneak away to the library or the park. 

         I also learned to handle Katelyn’s questions a lot better. At times, I can even say I enjoyed them. It was fun to see her learn. When we were apart, I always came back and shared my adventures with all three of them. I brought back books and CDs for them when I traveled. 

         Even though Katelyn always seemed appreciative for what I did, it never seemed enough to me. I wanted to do so much more. If I could have three wishes, I would have wished for Katelyn more money to survive on, more time to rest, and more chances to travel with her girls. I never could make all of their problems disappear, though. Katelyn still faced legal issues because of her ex-husband. He seemed to be constantly trying to disrupt their lives with more of his abuse. She had old legal and medical bills to pay. She never had enough time to rest or enough money to really be comfortable. I always felt like I was failing them somehow.

         Now she has saved up enough to move a little closer to work and in a slightly bigger apartment. I came over today to help pack, but never dreamed of what I would hold in my hands—rocks and watermelon seeds in plastic bags with a ribbon tied on to each one. A neatly written note was inside of each bag.

         “Rocks from Maine, 2001. I can’t believe Grace thought of me on her trip. Being remembered is the sweetest gift of all.”

         “Rocks from Colorado, 2003. When Grace looked out across the mountains, she fell in love with the view and brought part of it back for me. She cared enough to share with me what she saw. Sharing memories is a wonderful gift.”

         “Rocks from Switzerland, 2004. No matter how far she goes, she never forgets me. She could have walked away so many times. These rocks remind me of the beauty of the landscapes she can see and of the beauty of the friendship she shares with me.”

         “Watermelon seeds, 2000. Grace bought us a watermelon—first one in our new home. Emma, Emily and I decided to dry and keep the seeds. The watermelon made us all smile. It was the perfect gift for us. I hope one day we plant seeds of love and joy just like Grace does for us. That’s what I want to teach my girls.”

         The bags had been stored in a shoebox. On the lid, Katelyn had written, “Rocks and watermelon seeds—all a person needs in life. With these, I know I can make it now. We’re really going to make it.”

         I slipped one watermelon seed out of the bag and into my pocket. Having it there made me feel very loved by the three people that I didn’t think I had helped enough. I put the shoebox in my car to take on to their new home. Yes, they are really going to make it now. Maybe they already have. 

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Your challenge for the week: Think about who you can offer love to. What simple gifts can you offer someone that could be very meaningful in their life? Do you offer love that heals? Maybe you can help change lives one small moment at a time. Offer love to those in your community. This story message doesn’t just apply to domestic violence victims. Offer love to someone of a different race or a different viewpoint. Offer kindness and loving gestures to someone in the LGBTQ+ community. To someone of a different religion. 

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